Average dating time before saying i love you
The question of when to say “I love you” in a relationship is a contentious one.
In the many conversations I’ve had on the topic, the consensus seems to be that three months in is the sweet spot. In all my serious relationships, the L-word was dropped closer to three .
—then isn’t looking like a psycho just par for the course?
For proof of the madness of love, look no further than the research of anthropologist Helen Fisher.
You think about them 24/7—it’s as if they’ve hijacked your brain.
So now I can look back and think: Duh, obviously I was right! Because when it doesn’t work out, it’s so easy to shame yourself for believing the high.