And the American insistence on mixing love and sex and expecting passion to last forever is leading to great suffering that we think is tragic and unnecessary." So, does this explain why a significant portion of married men and women, as well as committed heterosexual, gay or bisexual males, women seeking women and transgender people, continue to seek out the company of those other than their primary partner?
Over the last several hundred years, married dating in western society has taken many forms.
Which means they may not meet the ultimate needs of cheating wives or their male counterparts such as yourself who are often looking for a casual, no-commitment relationship.
Similarly, dating sites like Tindr, or pages on Facebook or Twitter, may be convenient and accessible on everyone's i Phone or Android, but fail to ensure your privacy.
But one thing is certain in this day and age - online dating is the preferred choice of most dating adults.
In a recent article by Aaron Smith of the Pew Research Centre, users of online dating are generally positive about dating digitally.
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Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, Snap, You Tube, Grindr, Tindr and endless online dating websites may mean more choice, but do they get you to where you want to be?